A Tale of Two Weddings

In the next six months, my son, daughter, and
grandson are all getting married. Our family is
spread across Ontario and the United States,
so I'm thankful to be living in the computer
generation. Wedding plans without the
advantage of the Internet and email would
be a long, difficult process.

To get my point across, let's visit the homes
of Miss Modern and Miss Pre-Computer as
they prepare for their special days:

Miss Modern has an idea of the venue she
would like for her wedding and spends an
evening researching on the Internet. She
looks at pictures of different halls, along
with prices, menus, and features
included. After deciding on three
possibilities, she emails to ask if they
would be available on the wedding date.
One hall is booked, so Miss M. and her
fiance will go to see both halls and make
a final decision. Communication and menu
changes are done by email.

Miss M. designs a database for her guest
list. Additions and changes are easily made.
Invitations are created using special
wedding software and elegant blank cards.
Easy, attractive and inexpensive.

Again using the database and a signature
font, Miss M. creates mailing labels (using
transparent labels) for 200 people in less
than an hour. To create personalized reply
cards, she uses mail merge and the computer
inserts names on each card.

A relative in another country would like
photos of the couple for a special wedding
gift. Using a digital camera, the photos
are taken and emailed in plenty of time
for the gift to be made.

There are constant questions from the
guests about accommodation nearby, what
is everyone wearing, what do the young
couple need? Emails answer many of the
questions and guests are given a website
for the bridal registry. Items still needed
are listed here, can be purchased without
leaving home and will be delivered to the
reception. This is a big help to people
coming from a distance.

Miss Modern relaxes while she and her
future husband look at honeymoon spots
- on the Internet of course!

Miss Pre- Computer, on the other hand,
has had a headache for days. Too many
things to do and not enough time.
After weekends spent looking at
various halls, she and her fiance can't
take it any longer and book the next
one they visit.

The guest list has been typed out, but
some important people were missed and
there are duplicates on the list. Miss
Pre-C is not a fast typist when she's
stressed, so has to re-do the 200 guest
list a number of times before it's right.

Her days are constantly interrupted by
phone calls from guests with questions
about the wedding. The long distance
bill is growing every day.

A friend recommends a good printer
for invitations, but he is out of town,
and another search begins.
The invitations are beautiful, so
Miss Pre-C begins addressing the
200 envelopes. Never praised for
her handwriting, the last of the
envelopes is barely readable. She
decides to try again tomorrow.

Relatives need pictures of the couple
for a special gift. The photos are
mailed and after frantic calls to the
post office, are finally delivered, too
late to use.

More long distance calls so gifts aren't
duplicated.

A frantic call from Gramma at the border.
Customs officials are questioning her and
are taking apart the gifts. Through her
tears, Gramma explains that the 50 items
had been individually wrapped.

Miss Pre-C takes a deep breath and
considers eloping.

P.S. If you still need convincing, my son
met his future bride on the Internet!


Creative Home Computing is a unique online resource, providing the help and ideas to use computers confidently and creatively and have fun in the process. Regardless of your age or skill level, computer literacy will enlarge your world.

Projects - Hints - Products
"It's Never Too Late 2 Learn"
www.creativehomecomputing.com

In The News:


Deseret News

Kentucky clerk won't let deputies issue same-sex wedding licenses, stays in jail
CNN
(CNN) Rowan County, Kentucky, clerk Kim Davis was given a second chance: She didn't have to issue same-sex marriage licenses herself; she merely had to agree not to interfere with five deputy clerks who had told the federal judge they'd issue them in ...
Kentucky Clerk Kim Davis Doesn't Seem to Get How the Constitution WorksTIME
Compromise could fix Kentucky's wedding license feud, but the Supreme Court is ...Deseret News
Kentucky clerk Kim Davis jailed, refuses to let deputy clerks issue gay ...AL.com
New York Magazine
all 2,740 news articles »

Firstpost

Wedding under scanner: Army detains, searches marriage party in Kashmir
Firstpost
The conflict in Jammu and Kashmir between security forces and militants cast a shadow over an occasion of celebration recently, when a marriage party was detained and repeatedly searched by the army, the Indian Express reported on Thursday.

and more »

International Business Times, India Edition

Shivaraj Kumar Daughter's Wedding Live Streaming Online: Watch Nirupama's ...
International Business Times, India Edition
Understanding that people across the state will be interested to witness the lavish wedding, Shivaraj Kumar launched a website dedicated to his daughter's wedding. People can now see the entire proceedings of the marriage including reception live below.

and more »

People Magazine

How Time Flies! Inside Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's First Year of Marriage
People Magazine
To celebrate the couple's wedding anniversary, we're taking a look back at the most memorable moments that have composed their first year as husband and wife. Introducing Mrs. Jolie Pitt. It wasn't until her March 24 New York Times op-ed – this one ...
Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt First Wedding Anniversary: Couple In Marriage ...Parent Herald
Brad Pitt And Angelina Jolie Relationship Updates: Couple Celebrate First ...News Every day

all 20 news articles »

Los Angeles Times

Justice Kennedy's gay marriage opinion is celebrated again -- in wedding vows
Los Angeles Times
When Justice Anthony M. Kennedy wrote the U.S. Supreme Court's opinion legalizing same-sex marriage, it's unlikely that he intended to compose a preface for wedding vows. Yet his conclusion has become just that. "No union is more profound than ...

and more »

New York Times

At Manhattan Marriage Bureau, a Union of Matrimony and Bureaucracy
New York Times
The increase has been coaxed by two changes in recent years: the legalization of same-sex marriage and an effort by Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg in 2009 to reimagine — and relocate — the bureau to rival Las Vegas as a wedding destination with pizazz.


The 'saddest bride I have ever seen': Child marriage is as popular as ever in ...
Washington Post
On her wedding day, 15-year-old Nasoin Akhter looked “melancholic,” according to photographer Allison Joyce, who documented the teenage girl's wedding to her 32-year-old husband, Mohammad Hasamur Rahman, last week in Manikganj, Bangladesh.


Huffington Post

Heartbreaking Photos Show A Child Bride's Wedding In Bangladesh
Huffington Post
“It's difficult to say for sure whether [crying] is in response to that they don't want to be married, but what I can say is that very many of the girls that we interviewed expressed very strong feelings about the impact of marriage on their lives ...
Child Marriage in BangladeshABC News

all 8 news articles »

National Post

Dear Prudence: Help! The woman who broke up my parents' marriage is coming to ...
National Post
In this week's video, Prudie counsels a letter writer full of misgivings about having to invite the woman who broke up her parents' marriage to her wedding. Facebook Find National Post on Facebook · Twitter · Google+ · Reddit · Email · Typo? More ...


Palm Beach Post

Tampa couple takes aim at marriage with gun-range wedding
Palm Beach Post
The wedding stuck with the theme of firearms with Webb's boutonniere being made out of a .308 caliber shell casing, the cake topper a sculpture of a couple standing back-to-back holding guns, and targets for the guests to fire at with “Gary and Melissa ...

and more »
Google News

How To Keep Love Growing Through All The Ups And Downs

The relationship expert on i.village.com, I am the author of... Read More

Wife Smarter Than Husband?

Is it safe for a wife to be smarter than... Read More

Spotlight on the Asian-Themed Wedding

Asian-themed weddings are on the rise, and at first this... Read More

Destination Weddings in Oregon

Oregon is one of the most marvelous places in the... Read More

Finding the Perfect Bridesmaid Gift

The bridesmaid gift is essential to the planning of a... Read More

Wedding Dresses ? Why They Are White and Other Wedding Lore

Brides have always worn white, right? Not so. In ancient... Read More

Intimacy, What is It Really?

Simply put, intimacy is more than sex or making love.... Read More

Choosing A Wedding Photographer

The wedding day is the day that most women wait... Read More

Create Unique Wedding Invitations That Only Look Expensive

Save a substantial amount of money on invitations, without sacrificing... Read More

Wedding Planning

Depending on your personal preferences and the preferences of your... Read More

Marriage Counseling: What Do Wives Really Want in a Husband? Part One

Numerous men have pondered the questions, "Why does my wife... Read More

After Wedding Tips - Five Tips for a Great Marriage - (That Produces The Good Feelings That Last)

Here are five seeds of a great marriage from grandmother.... Read More

Meaningful Wedding Gift Ideas

A wedding is one of the most special days planned... Read More

Wedding Favor Creator

Wedding favors have always been a nice, personal gesture to... Read More

The SURGE of the URGE!

Have you ever heard the expression, "The Urge to Merge"?It... Read More

Bridal Shower Games Are Extremely Fun!

Bridal shower games are a wonderful way to put your... Read More

Choosing the Perfect Wedding Gown

Selecting a wedding gown is possibly one of the most... Read More

Florida Honeymoon Vacations

Celebrate your marriage by planning a Florida honeymoon vacation with... Read More

Wonderful White Gold Wedding Rings

The elegant and sophisticated look of glittering, gleaming gold. There's... Read More

Heavenly Bahamas Honeymoon Resorts

Celebrating under the attentive care of Bahamas honeymoon resorts, there... Read More

Replacing Your Lost Wedding Ring

Imagine it's Halloween evening and you've just gone to the... Read More

How to Choose the Perfect Headpiece and Veil for Your Facial and Body Features

All brides want to be beautiful on their wedding day,... Read More

Extreme Age Differences In Marriage Can Lead To Infidelity

"Extreme age differences between husband and wife may lead to... Read More

A Unique Diamond Engagement Ring ? In Platinum

Diamond engagement rings for many years typically came in the... Read More

Brad Pitt - Jennifer Aniston Marriage Undermined by Inappropriate Friendship with Angelina Jolie

Speculation continues about the break-up of Brad Pitt and Jennifer... Read More